The Blame Game

Happy Monday, all. Lisa here.


Do you lack love, happiness and/or wealth because somebody screwed you over?


"Why does everyone else get all the breaks?"


"If it wasn't for you, I'd be ... (happy, rich, successful, etc)."


"Everyone takes advantage of me."


Excuses and blame are useless, and do nothing but render us helpless. When you play the victim, you rob yourself of power.


It's time to quit casting blame and take responsibility for your shortcomings.


Let go of the past. If you hold onto regret, resentment or anger, you'll only remain stuck there. Forgive... release... elevate... evolve... not only will you release the other person, but you also set yourself free from that misery.


It's also unhealthy to repeatedly jab that critical finger in your own face. In my past, I blamed myself for everything, which caused me to choose bad habits and unhealthy relationships as a way of unconciously punishing myself. Blaming and judging yourself is just as disempowering as directing it toward others. Thus, it's crucial to learn to accept and forgive yourself, as well as others.


Naturally, there will always be things that are completely out of our control. That's just life. You can even deal with those emergencies with the best attitude possible; it makes a difference.


Remember: When you complain, you remain. Take responsibility for your life and stop blaming others for your problems. Take it easy on yourself, as well. You are so worthy of having a wonderful, independent, abundant life. Live it.


xo

"When you focus upon lack in an attitude of complaining, you establish a vibrational point of attraction that then gives you access only to more thoughts of complaint. Your deliberate effort to tell a new story will establish a new pattern of thought, providing you with a new point of attraction from your present, about your past, and into your future. The simple effort of looking for positive aspects will set a new vibrational tone that will begin the immediate attraction of thoughts, people, circumstances, and things that are pleasing to you."
--- Abraham (Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness," by Esther and Jerry Hicks)





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